Sarah Aporo: Despite Being Undetactable, I Turn Down HIV Negative Men

I can’t transmit HIV now because I am undetectable but I can’t accept in men due the fact that am not sure if they will stick around me without continuously reminding me of my positive status.

Sarah Aporo

Everytime a HIV negative man who is interested in me walks away because I am positive, I perfectly understand (Note: I always instantly tell them my status so they can decide before it’s too late).

I ask myself if I were in his shoes would I stick around, to be honest the answer is unknown because I have lived in both I was once negative and now positive.

Yes so many negative men approach me with intentions of having a sexual relationship with me but I am always sceptical not because I’m afraid that I will infect them which is impossible now because I am undetectable but because I am not sure they will stick around without continuously reminding me of my positive status or literally taking advantage of my alleged vulnerability.


I know hundreds of couples which are in discordant relationships but trust me it takes God sent love beyond the statement “I love you”.

So, my friend, are you positive and searching for a life partner, relax and wait upon the Lord other than desperately falling for anyone. You owe no one a relationship because you are positive, you didn’t invite HIV to your life.

Also read: https://adamkungu.wordpress.com/2021/01/31/infected-with-hiv-for-not-testing-before-sex-25-year-old-sarah-aporo/

Author: adamkungu

Ugandan Journalist with passion for African affairs| Expert on Somalia| Former Talkshow host on Top TV and Radio| Talkshow Host Baba TV and Radio 4.

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